Fix bin/publish: copy docs.dist from project root

Fix bin/publish: use correct .env path for rspade_system
Fix bin/publish script: prevent grep exit code 1 from terminating script

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node_modules/node-addon-api/index.js

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+const path = require('path');
+
+const includeDir = path.relative('.', __dirname);
+
+module.exports = {
+  include: `"${__dirname}"`, // deprecated, can be removed as part of 4.0.0
+  include_dir: includeDir,
+  gyp: path.join(includeDir, 'node_api.gyp:nothing'), // deprecated.
+  targets: path.join(includeDir, 'node_addon_api.gyp'),
+  isNodeApiBuiltin: true,
+  needsFlag: false
+};